๐——๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฉ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฉ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ? ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€.

A friend had presented me a book when I was admitted in the hospital, written by one of the greatest scientists and thinkers of our times, Stephen Hawking. The book was titled โ€œA Brief History of Time.โ€

Something that Stephen Hawking said, inspired me a lot. โ€œHowever difficult life may seem there is always something you can do and succeed at.โ€

One thing I have learnt in my life, โ€œI๊œฐ สแดแดœ แดกแด€ษดแด› แด›แด ส™แด‡ sแดœแด„แด„แด‡ss๊œฐแดœสŸ, สแดแดœ แด…แดษด’แด› สœแด€แด แด‡ แด›แด แด„สœแด€สŸสŸแด‡ษดษขแด‡ แดแด›สœแด‡ส€s, สแดแดœ สœแด€แด แด‡ แด›แด แด„สœแด€สŸสŸแด‡ษดษขแด‡ สแดแดœส€sแด‡สŸ๊œฐ. Tสœแด‡ษด, สŸแด‡แด€ส€ษด แด›แด ษขแด ส™แด‡สแดษดแด… แด€สŸสŸ แด›สœแด‡sแด‡ แด„สœแด€สŸสŸแด‡ษดษขแด‡s แด›ส€แด‡แด€แด›ษชษดษข แด›สœแด‡แด แด€s sแด‡สŸ๊œฐ ษชแดแด˜แดsแด‡แด… สŸษชแดษชแด›แด€แด›ษชแดษดs แด€ษดแด… ษดแดแด› แดแด€แด‹แด‡ แด€ ส™ษชษข ๊œฐแดœss แดแดœแด› แด๊œฐ แด›สœแด‡แด.โ€

Traits of the Victim

Blaming Others
Blaming job
Blaming boss
Blaming organisation
Blaming your work
Blaming society
Blaming country
Blaming Family
Blaming parents
Blaming current life

Victim blames all except himself/herself.

Victim focuses on obstacles but victor focusses on opportunity

Victim sees problems everywhere ,victor try to make best of the situation

Victim focusses on risks in life victor focusses on life as an exciting adventure.

I am not talking positive thinking here, but this is how the perspective of victims how they see the world

Victim is always fearful and keep thinking what could go wrong always, where as victor takes responsibility for his/her life

Victor has trust , self confidence in his/her abilities and Victim depends on luck

Victim always blames for ill luck, victor believes in luck favours one who takes action but not depend on it

Victim is not committed to change the life, victor is unstoppable will not give up come what may

More details are in my chapter 3 of my Book โ€œ๐—œ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ b๐—ฒ ๐—จ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒโ€
๐™‰๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™™๐™š๐™˜๐™ž๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ข ๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›e

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